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Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Getting Ready, Freddy

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I have my stickers ready to slap all over my possessions so they can be categorized into three sections: Sea Shipment, Storage and Do Not Pack.

We plan on taking as much as we possibly can over to Abu Dhabi – but we will leave behind a lot of electronics, kitchen appliances and gear (tear). 

I thought I would stock up on a few items that I have heard are not easily found there.

Taco Seasoning..the entire display (24 packs)!, Oil of Olay face wash, Neutrogena face sunscreen SPF like 1 million, aveeno lotion for my kiddos, dry roux mix (normally i buy the wet kind, but I worried about if it broke what a mess that would be. yuck., brown gravy mix, medicine for kids: ibuprofen, cold medicine, benadryl and tylenol boudreaux’s butt paste, and since my son won’t drink anything but “juice” I thought to bring some crystal light.  I also have bought them each a couple of pairs of shoes (next size up) as well as a beginning of a spring/summer wardrobe

…. I gotta get packing.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

just audrey

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This little girl is getting big wayyy to fast… such a sweetie~!

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GOOD NIGHT!

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Change

 

Soooo. here we are – it is crunch time – movers arrive one week from today and in the meantime I have the task of packing the suitcases.  These suitcases will be seriously loaded down since they will have to have all the clothes, accessories, shoes, books, etc.. for the next 3 months. I am also working on getting a very cleverly packed carry-on with all things to entertain two kids for a 17 hour plane ride, have family pictures scheduled, family visits and a very long list of good-byes to do.

I have been very busy/productive thus far and have prepared as much as I can for the unknowns… speaking of unkowns – so much has changed:

1. We have learned that the villa from the previous post that we were told we would be living in is no longer available.  The current resident’s project got delayed or something so they aren’t going to move.  I was obviously less than thrilled about the kitchen design, but the location to Charles’ office and Audrey's school was ideal, so the pro’s outweighed the cons.. we are currently searching for a villa in the same neighborhood and if nothing comes available then we will have to look elsewhere.  We will live in the furnished apartment that Charles has been living in until we find something.

2. We also learned that we can forego our “air shipment” to make a much larger allowance for our sea shipment.. which we have decided to go ahead and do. however.. this is difficult to choose what to pack since we don’t know anything about the place we will be living…. not sure what types of rooms etc..

3. Audrey won’t be going to preschool over there anymore (KG1). There are no openings in ACS (American Community School) and the other preschools do not accept mid year applications. booo!  We are hoping and praying for her to secure a spot in the Kindergarten… sheesh.

4. Our movers are now scheduled for Saturday 29th instead of Friday 28th

Charles just got back from the UAE today and is SO jet lagged (he was there since Dec. 30th). poor guy. He has lots of meetings/work related events this week as well as the major task of getting our taxes done. I’m so thankful in times like this that I am NOT the money  minded one. :)

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

20 Days

 

 

Things are getting down to the wire quickly here.. as our paper chain dwindles down, there is SO much to do, plan, think about etc…  I am beginning to understand why expats have such a bond with each other because no one, but no one can understand how mentally challenging something like this is until you’ve done it.

When I break the news to someone, whether it be a stranger, acquaintance or best bud, I get one of two reactions… either: WOW how cool!! are you excited?!! or OMG I would NEVER do that… you’re one heck of a wife.   I find it interesting that the  reactions are so extreme and I don’t hear anything in between.. it is kind of funny.

Our plans, expectations and reality have changed so many times, I have learned to be more flexible and try to go with the flow as much as possible… Those of you that know me well, understand that this is a stretch for me.. I am a planner, organizer and a list person.  I am hoping that all of this change and adjustment will only help more once we get there and realize we aren’t in Texas anymore. ha.

One thing that has just kept my sanity is my friend, Colette.  She and I are sort of modern day “pen pals.”  Colette and her husband are in Abu Dhabi with Fluor and have lived there for a year… their kids are similar ages as ours and she has been a wealth of knowledge and a huge blessing to me.   I appreciate her letting me bombard her with daily emails of questions as stupid as, can you buy taco seasoning there? and as important as School Applications.. I would be in a serious BIND if I couldn’t pick her brain every single day.  I’m looking forward to meeting her in person soon!

Here is an overview of what is to come:

  • Movers/Packers will arrive on January 28th
  • We fly out February 1st
  • We arrive in Abu Dhabi February 2nd
  • Living in Furnished Apartment for 2 months
  • Move into Villa
  • Sea Shipment arrives with our stuff after being there 3 months

So.. After February 1st - unless it fits in our suitcase, we won’t see anything familiar until May {sigh}

There is so much out of our control and left up to timing and trust it is so easy to see God’s hand at work.  With all these moves I know that one day I will look back and wonder how in the world I got through it… The peace and rest I get from giving it to God is so much better than wrestling with all of this myself. 

Proverbs 3:5-6 

Trust in the LORD with all your heart

and lean not on your own understanding;

in all your ways submit to Him,

and He will make your paths straight

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

I trust You

For those of you with little ones in your life, I HIGHLY recommend this daily devotional for children – it looks vintage and cute but even more important the messages are wonderful.. I love that the author takes the unique point of view and speaks thru the book as if Jesus were talking to your child.  I get more out of it each night than Audrey does ;) but I am hoping that she might be drifting off to sleep with thoughts of Jesus in her sweet little red-head.

As I was reading tonight’s devotional, January 4th, I couldn’t help but feel as if it was written for us at this time in our lives.  Here it is…

A New Habit

Everyone has habits – some are good and some are not so good.  Starting today, I want you to learn a new habit.  Try saying, “I trust You, Jesus,” no matter what is happening around you.  Choose to remember that I am in control of the universe, and that I love you with a love that is higher than any mountain and deeper than any ocean.

By saying, “I trust You, Jesus,” you are saying that you know I am in control of all things and that nothing can defeat Me.  It is then that fear loses its grip on you.  So when you are facing tough times, trust Me to guide you through them and use them to grow your faith.  Trusting Me is a habit you won’t ever want to break.

such a simple, basic, truth but Just what I needed to hear. Ahhh. to just rest in the Lord and not to worry about what if’s, fear the unknown, or let the attitude of “the loss of my life as I know it” get the best of me.  I know it is all to be expected and all very normal emotions, but I had about a week of being parked there and I’m ready to move forward and prepare for an adventure of a lifetime…

We’ll see what God has in store.

 

Monday, January 3, 2011

Such a TROOPER!

This little girl has blown me away this week.  After all the research, talking to doctors, asking friends… All I heard and read was the same thing.. this recovery will NOT be fun, it’s going to be horrible.  That is what I prepared for mentally – I was ready for the worst.. but ended up with the best. This little one sure is tough.

Day 1: Morning of Surgery

We left the house at 6:00 a.m. and arrived at Doctor’s Surgical Center just before 6:30.  The kids played in the waiting area and then we went to the back and waited and waited for Audrey and Will’s turn for surgery.

Will went first and as expected it was quick quick.  His body didn’t take well to the plastic tubes that are standard for most kids.  The doctor said they work great 99% of the time… you would know MY kid has to be that 1%! Will’s ears had created polyps over the openings of the tubes, blocking all fluids – causing swelling and of course fluid build up.  This time he got titanium tubes and we are hoping that this will do the trick for him.  He woke up out of anesthesia and didn’t even cry! He had a popsicle and off he went to Lake Charles with my parents.  Within 30 minutes I got a text with him smiling and being himself again. whew.. one down one to go!

After getting him settled in my parents car I went back upstairs and back into the waiting room.. felt like hours, but it was probably 30-45 minutes.  Audrey started to wake up from her adenoid and tonsils surgery with a little gaging and coughing – since this isn’t ideal for the ‘bo-bo’s’ the nurse gave her some phenegren (sp?) and off to sleep she went for about an hour or so.  When she woke up the second time she didn’t cry, fuss.. nothing. she wanted to go potty and tore up a popsicle – couldn’t eat it fast enough!!

After she had been in recovery for 2 hours we were allowed to go home.  I was shocked how calm she was the kids all around her were screaming and thrashing around… (which was totally what i expected for her too).  We got home and back to bed she went.. forever. she napped for hours and hours.  When she woke up she ate everything in sight… her favorites were popsicles and boiled eggs (chopped up).  We played games, watched movies and really had a fun time together.  I put her back to bed at around 8:30 at night and she woke up at 3:00 a.m. like it was morning. We watched another movie, she ate a popsicle and a yogurt and back to bed at 4:30 a.m. We both woke up just before 8:00.

Here are some pictures of before surgery…

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Day 2:

We had a full day of fun around the house doing more of the same… playing, coloring, painting, cooking, movies… LOTS of fun for Audrey without brother around. I put her down for a nap at around 1:00 and when I went in to check on her about 30 minutes later, she was still wide awake and asked to get up.. how did she stay awake all day?!  I was very detailed about her medicine – she took her Tylenol with Codeine prescription every 4 hours (even thru the night *i’d set my alarm) for the first 2 days.

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Day 3:

Another awesome day of more cuddles, snuggles and one on one time - I switched her to regular tylenol, but still keeping her on it every 4 hours to stay on top of the pain (that may or may not be there).  She actually napped for a while this afternoon and when she woke up she had visitors and played some and after that, Mere and Cappy came back to drop off Will.  They missed each other! It was so cute to watch them laugh and hug.. buuuut that didn’t last too long.

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Day 4:

We got up and immediately wanted to send will back to LC. He was whining and complaining and fighting and fussing.. none of which he did for my parents of course. He tore up the house from one side to the next and all I could do was run around behind him trying to clean up. ugh. this boy.  My friend Megan kept him for about an hour for me to go to the dermatologist and I took audrey with me.  When we picked up will we also picked up Addison and she stayed to play for 4 hours! the girls had a ball together!!  Audrey had no meds after 8:30 a.m. and hasn’t complained at all. she even ate cheese-its.  Per her request she had pancakes for dinner and it is looking like we are back to normal….. somewhat.

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All better!!! in just a few short days!  I will always cherish those sweet days we had together.. one on one time with Audrey was absolutely amazing and totally priceless. I haven’t had time alone like that with her since before Will was born and I didn’t realize what I was missing.  I would like to make an effort from here on out to spend more one on one time with each of my babies.  Big thanks to my parents for allowing me to focus on Audrey’s recovery by taking Will to Lake Charles (where he also had a blast!) It was a win win for us all.

All in all this experience was way better than I anticipated…. prepare for the worst and hope for the best –

Now on to preparing for the move!

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