The Martha Syndrome

So, I am officially recognizing that I'm a little nutty... Yesterday I invited over a new acquaintance for dinner tonight and I have noticed that when I do this, I get a little too into it. Charles has been telling me this for years, but I see that he is right. For example, you'd think it was Christmas the way I woke up popped out of bed and began setting the table. ha!.. who does that?! I have already put the crab dip in it's appropriate fish-shaped pewter dish and placed it back in the refrigerator.. put the monogrammed napkins in the rings, glasses, plates, salad bowls, and silverware all in the appropriate places - even put the salad bowl on the table with tongs inside of it (so that i don't use them later and they'd be dirty when I needed them)... I even put the butter in the butter dish so that it would be soft and room temp for dinner time.. are you starting to get the picture?? What is WRONG with me??! If you notice the time of this post - it isn't even 10:00 a.m. This is something I know FOR SURE Audrey will grow up making fun of me for when she is older. I am trying to hold back so that the atmosphere is casual but I CAN'T!!! This happens no matter who we have over... I have a serious problem... ha haha! HELP! I really do all of this stuff early so that I'm not running around and working hard while company is here - I try to just relax and enjoy the company... did I just justify my insane behavior??